I believe in the line "Bad/short memory is key to happiness" (btw this is not my justification for forgetting my purse, mobile etc every next day) . Somehow, bad experiences stick more in mind than good experiences.
From personal experiences, We make friends and sometimes we feel bad about their behavior or we get hurt. My tendency is to go into my own shell and stop talking to the person. Sometimes, I feel I am just dragging the relationship. I feel like victim. I gave so much into the relationship and now this is what I am getting in return. Oh my God, world looks as if I am "free falling" .....:-)
But the only solution is to stop reminding myself that I gave so much into my relationship. Hindi mein tabhi to bolte hain "neki kar dariya mein daal"...Don't stick to history....
A lot of times, if we forget one or two incidents, I guess we can build good relationships with a lot of people. Sometimes, we just stick to those incidents and ruin the relationships. I think we can avoid that.
And in professional career also, if we decide career decisions too much based on past, then I don't think it is a good idea. In today's dynamic times, it is important to continuously learn and unlearn skills. So, I think be light and live in present .....in every sense .....history is history....:-)
From personal experiences, We make friends and sometimes we feel bad about their behavior or we get hurt. My tendency is to go into my own shell and stop talking to the person. Sometimes, I feel I am just dragging the relationship. I feel like victim. I gave so much into the relationship and now this is what I am getting in return. Oh my God, world looks as if I am "free falling" .....:-)
But the only solution is to stop reminding myself that I gave so much into my relationship. Hindi mein tabhi to bolte hain "neki kar dariya mein daal"...Don't stick to history....
A lot of times, if we forget one or two incidents, I guess we can build good relationships with a lot of people. Sometimes, we just stick to those incidents and ruin the relationships. I think we can avoid that.
And in professional career also, if we decide career decisions too much based on past, then I don't think it is a good idea. In today's dynamic times, it is important to continuously learn and unlearn skills. So, I think be light and live in present .....in every sense .....history is history....:-)
